Size: 7

Disclaimer: if youre offended while reading this, that’s a you problem.

WEAR IT

Have you ever heard of the saying “if the shoe fits wear it?” Suggesting that someone should accept a generalized remark or criticism as applying to themselves.

I FINALLY stopped letting people walk all over me, put me down and I finally started speaking out. It’s funny when you finally stop putting up with the toxicity in your life how many people get offended when they realize THEY were the toxic ones.

If you read my posts and are so quick to get offended thinking I wrote about you without validation or clarification from me, I’m going to just have to let you attempt to squeeze your foot into the tiny shoe you’re trying to put on. By any means if you are relating so closely to what I write thinking that you’re the issue then that more or less seems like a you problem and it’s not upon me to give you the satisfaction of making yourself feel better by saying it is not.

If you by any means get offended by my posts then I am sorry what i had to say offended you. But I am only writing how i feel. The definition of feelings is a belief, and how I feel may not be how you feel and that’s fine. You’re entitled to your own feelings too.

On that note, here’s a tiny pair of shoes for you to wear while you sulk:

UNFRIENDED

Its funny to sit and watch people you used to admire/adore/love waltz out of your life because you're doing well. The moment you begin to do well is also the moment those people mentioned above decide to walk out of your life. Jealousy is a very ugly and toxic trait. It engulfs us and there’s no way out, it blinds us and causes us to feel hatred and dislike towards the ones we once loved. I used to be so offended when someone I knew and/or was close with would block or unfriend me. Now I just sit here and laugh, if you’re not in my corner… then get out.

MERGE

I got engaged to my best friend this weekend. It’s interesting to see how many people are genuinely happy for you and how many people are upset to see you doing well in life. Weddings are fun and exciting and ever since I was a little girl I was so excited to get to plan a wedding. But it’s only been 3 days and i’m already over it. So many people whom try to take control of everything and be involved in ever single way just to say that they are. People whom you haven’t spoken to in years suddenly attempt to be your bestfriend and people whom you thought were your bestfriend suddenly are distraught at the fact that you’re truly happen and they are nothing but upset that you are doing big things in your life. It’s kind of disturbing seeing some your bestfriends upset that you’re happy. It truly makes you question your whole friendship in general.

But, on that note… at least i’ll be trying to squeeze into wedding dresses rather than too small of shoes.

Talk soon ;)